I have found my life has changed since i had a baby, and that includes my lifestyle and my friendships. i barely leave my house after 9 pm. i dont usually even wanna leave my baby with my husband because i am worried if i am out having fun that something might happen to her, plus i am a mom now. i have obligations and responsabilities, why would i leave my daughter in the care of someone else to just go out and go drinking with friends? i am the one that had the baby not my mother, so why would i leave her and miss out on things that she needs. thats what i dont understand about some young mothers, but thats a different topic.
i have lost a lot of friends now that i am a mother. i understand that yes i do have a daughter and most of my friends dont, but i dont understand why they think that i am a different person. i am still me just with different responsibilties. i dunno. i just wish that they could make time for me, along with my daughter. i cant wait for them to have children and see how it is, its a wake up call. its time for my friends to grow up a bit.
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